Sure, it's all still quite botched.

Totally! In the end, I think we would all have been better off just living with the Extended Universe and never getting another film. But given that we got what we got with the last two films, I was positively thrilled with
TRoS. It may age no better than the previous two (or the prequels for that matter), but I sure enjoyed it. Of course, I said that after
TFA too, and it has not aged well for me. (Way too much of a lift of
ANH for it to qualify as a Top 3 for me at this point.) In the final analysis, I doubt that I will disagree with many of your criticisms; the only difference being that I was able to look past them and enjoy the film a whole lot more.

(Looking past a film's faults is something I consider a talent, or at least a blessing. I know you just think I'm crazy.

) Basically, it's a lot better an ending than I could have predicted, so for that I'm grateful. Sure, it may have a ton of problems, I'll give you that, but much of that was because of being so desperate to correct for the previous two films. Perhaps my expectations were just that low. But I do think JJ did a fantastic job overall on this last one.
It's really too bad Disney was in too much of a hurry to allow him time to do the second film in this trilogy. Or, for that matter, allow him time to write an
original script for
TFA. Of course, given another year to polish the script for
TRoS, it would likely have been much better yet too! Disney has rushed this whole saga, but at least it ended better than it started. And I actually look forward to binging these three films together in a few months, even if I realize they're messy.
As much as the original Star Wars was a huge influence on my life, since seeing it in the theatre when I was 7, I don't hold it to too high a standard, I guess. It's really pretty cheesy in a lot of ways, and I accept that I love cheese. And any illusions of
Star Wars being perfect were shattered a long time ago, when
Return of the Jedi came out.